to let go...

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be.--Anon

Letting go is one of the hardest lessons in life. Recently i had an encounter with a long lost friend. Someone i was not close with but after the meeting we became somewhat close friends. I learned a lot from this friend in the short span time. And... I am still learning. We shared many insights especially on life... and one of the best advice i got was to relax and take life as it comes...

Being thru pain and several downfall in life... i have managed to get up and face everything thrown at me. No matter how hard it was i managed. Maybe with God's grace. The thing is sometimes we get tired of being put to test hoping for it to end. Emotional exhaustion cause such an heartache. You can be as strong as a granite only to realize that your heart is not that strong... yeah, we are not robots for goodness sake.. just an imperfect human being...living a decent life. I am thankful to God for being my side to give me the support i need in the form of my family & some trusted friends...

I just dun get it...why can't any lovers just end a relationship properly without walking out on their partners without an explanation. This happened to several of my friends. All i say to them is..let go..move on...like Dr. Phil said "Does he really even make you happy? Be honest with yourself about the extent to which he's really meeting your needs. Chances are you're longing for the relationship that you wish it could be, and that you want to be in love with the person you wish he was. Dr. Phil reminds a guest: "There are times when you break up with somebody and you start missing them and you start thinking about all the good things. And then you're back with them for about 10 minutes and you go 'Oh yeah! Now I remember why I hate you!'" Don't kid yourself about what it was really like or glorify the past.

Ask yourself: Are you hiding in the relationship so you don't have to face the reality of being on your own? Don't stay with someone because it's comfortable and safe. It may seem more secure, but it's not healthy for you and it certainly won't help you get to a better place. Why would you want to settle and waste your life away just to avoid getting back in the game? This is true...and sadly many of us tend to do it...

Being hurt in love...we are afraid to trust and to love again. It's normal...But then don't hold all men / women responsible for the mistake your ex made. Why should they pay for the sins of someone else who may have wronged you? Learn to trust again — by trusting yourself. Trust is not about how much you trust one person or another to do right or wrong. How much you trust another person is a function of how much you trust yourself to be strong enough to deal with their imperfections." Have enough faith in yourself to be able to put yourself on the line with someone, without any guarantee of what will happen next. If you're playing the game with sweaty palms, it's because you're afraid of what you can or can't do, or dealing with your own imperfections — it's not about the other person.

Don't invest more than you can afford to lose. While it's important to move forward, you need to take things one step at a time. Focus on yourself. Some of us feel comfortable being alone (we have our reasons) and some are strong enough to look for love.. Whatever the decision may be.... 'may the force be with you' (a phrase my friend always text me).

Relax friends ; )

psssttt....dedicated to a certain Prince Caspian ; )

If a girl ever says "I'm Fine".. hold her and say "You're not.. I love you enough to know you're not fine.".. Don't stand there and watch her kill herself with tears....

Impossible ...

I remember years ago

Someone told me

I should take

Caution when it comes to love

I did, I did

And you were strong and I was not

My illusion, my mistake

I was careless, I forgot

I did

And now when all is done

There is nothing to say

You have gone and so effortlessly

You have won

You can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now

Shout it from the roof tops

Write it on the sky line

All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy

And my heart is broken

All my scars are open

Tell them what I hoped would be

Impossible, impossible

Impossible, impossible

Falling out of love is hard

Falling for betrayal is worst

Broken trust and broken hearts

I know, I know

Thinking all you need is there

Building faith on love and words

Empty promises will wear I know, I know

And now when all is gone

There is nothing to say

And if you're done with embarrassing me

On your own you can go ahead tell them

Shontelle: Impossible

i could really use a wish right now....

Can we pretend that airplanes

In the night sky

Are like shooting stars

I could really use a wish right now

(wish right now, wish right now)

I could use a dream or a genie or a wish

To go back to a place much simpler than this

There comes a time where you fade to the blackness

And when youre staring at that phone in your lap

And you hoping but them people never call you back

But thats just how the story unfolds

You get another hand soon after you fold

And when your plans unravel

And they sayin what would you wish for

If you had one chance

So airplane airplane sorry I'm late

Im on my way so dont close that gate

If I dont make that then Ill switch my flight

And Ill be right back at it by the end of the night

(B.o.B - Airplanes feat. Hayley Williams)

Your callin me more than ever now that were done

Two keys back to my place,

we were havin no fun

But your not ok, telling me you miss my face

I remember when you would say you hate my waist

I said im not coming back, its it

You fooled me once but you can’t have that ego turning

Just to bad for you, that when you had me

Didn’t know what to do, shes over you

Cause you had a good girl, good girl, girl

That’s a keeper, k-k-k-k-keeper

You had a good girl, good girl but

Didnt know how to treat her, t-t-t-t-treat her (treat her)

So silly boy get out my face (my face)

Why do you like the way regrets taste?

So silly boy get out my hair my hair(get outta here)

No, I don’t want you no more (get outta here)

Silly boy (silly boy)

Why you acting silly boy?

Silly boy boy (boyboy)

Acting acting silly boy?

You comin with those corny lines

Can’t live without meI’ll get some flowers for the day that you are buried

No, people make mistakes

But I just think your ass is fake

Only thing I want from you, is for you to (stay away)

I said im not coming back, its it

You fooled me once but you can’t have that ego turning

Just to bad for you, that when you had me

Didn’t know what to do, shes over you

b.r.o.k.e.n

Seems like just yesterday

You were a part of me

I used to stand so tall

I used to be so strong

Your arms around me tight

Everything, it felt so right

Unbreakable, like nothin' could go wrong

Now I can't breathe

No, I can't sleep

I'm barely hanging on

I told you everything

Opened up and let you in

You made me feel alright

For once in my life

Now all that's left of me

Is what I pretend to be

So together, but so broken up inside

'Cause I can't breathe

No, I can't sleep

I'm barely hangin' on

Here I am, once again

I'm torn into pieces

Can't deny it, can't pretend

Just thought you were the one

Broken up, deep inside

But you won't get to see the tears I cry

Behind these hazel eyes

Swallow me then spit me out

For hating you, I blame myself

Seeing you it kills me now

No, I don't cry on the outside

Anymore...Anymore...

~Kelly C~

Love The Way You Lie...

I can’t tell you what it really is

I can only tell you what it feels like

And right now there’s a steel knife

In my windpipeI can’t breathe

But I still fight

While I can fight

Just gonna stand there

And watch me burn

But that’s alright

Because I like

The way it hurts

Just gonna stand there

And hear me cry

But that’s alright

Because I love

The way you lie....

~RiRi & Eminem~

How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard..

When people share experiences together, and then they must part, there is a feeling of sadness. Saying goodbye to people that we feel connected to is an occasion of somber reflection. It is hard to imagine our lives without them, and yet we have no choice but to go on. It is comforting to know that for however long you will be separated you will always be in each others hearts. It is also an opportunity to be more present to others in your life and to look for opportunities to form new friendships.

~Silence~

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY...PA. i MISS U sooo mUCH... :'(

Sometimes it is so tiring being alone and taking care of myself...i just wish i could find someone caring enough to take care of me for a change ~ Evanatasha

Sometimes when I’m alone I cry,
Cause I am on my own
The tears I cry are bitter and warm,
They flow with life but take no form
I cry because my heart is torn
I find it difficult to carry on
If I had an ear to confide in
I would cry among my treasured friend
But who do u know who stops that long
To help another carry on
The world moves fast and it would rather pass
Then stop and see what makes me cry
So painful and sad
I Cry And No Ones Cares About Why...

-2paC ShAkuR-

“God

When I was alone, and had nothing

I asked for a friend to help me bear the pain

No one came, except God

When I needed a breath to rise, from my sleep

No one could help me.. except God

When all I saw was sadness, and I needed answers

No one heard me, except God

So when I'm asked.. who I give my unconditional love to?

I look for no other name, except God”

~Tupac Shakur~