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“Waiting is painful. But not knowing what to do is the worse kind of suffering.” ~Paulo Coelho

Hinder – Without You

I just wanna be alone tonight

I just wanna take a little breather

Cause lately all we do is fight

And every time it cuts me deeper

Cause something’s changed

You’ve been acting so strange

And its taking its toll on me

Its safe to say that

I’m ready to let you leave

Without you,

I live it up a little more everyday

Without you,

I’m seein myself so differently

I didn’t wanna believe it then

But it all worked out in the end

When I watched you walk away

Well I never thought id sayI’m fine

Without you

Called you up cause’ it’s been long enough

And you said that you were so much better

We have done a lot of growing up

We were never meant to be together
Cause something changed, you were acting so strange

And it’s taken its toll on me

It’s safe to say that I’m ready to let you leave

Without youI

I just wanna be alone tonight,

I just wanna take a little breather

* just heard tis song....and the the video...wow..NICE !

“You can erase someone from your mind. Getting them out of your heart is another story"

Flaws & All...

i first heard Beyonce Knowles render this song on the Ellen DeGeneres Show. It was Ellen's favourite song...and listening to BK singing it with such emotions...and tears flowing her eyes...was beautiful...

I'm a train reck in tha morning
I'm a bitch in tha afternoon
Every now n then when I'm horny
I can be really mean towards you
I'm a puzzle yes in deed
Ever complex in everyway
And all the pieces arent even in the box
And yet, you see the picture clear as day

I don't know why you love me
And that's why I love you
You catch me when I fall
Accept me flaws and all
And that's why I love you

I neglect you when I'm working
When I need attention I tend to nag
I'm a host of imperfection
And you see past all that
I'm a peasant by some standards
But in your eyes I'm a queen
You see potential in all my flaws
and that's exactly what I need

I don't know why you love me
And that's why I love you
You catch me when I fall
Accept me flaws and all
and that's why I love you

~Beyonce Knowles~

Lucky is a girl who's got such a guy in her life....

As the seconds pass...

We look back...

Of what our lives have held...

As the minutes pass...

We see what fell through the cracks...

Parts of our lives we withheld...

As the hours pass...

We think of what we learned...

What we have taught...

What we have forgot...

As the days pass...

We wish a lot could be returned...

We wish we would of never fought...

As your life passes...

You stand proud...

You did well... Live on...

to all my friends...

When the sun shines,

we’ll shine together

Told you I'll be here forever

Said I'll always be a friend

Took an oath I'm stick it out till the end

Now that it's raining more than ever

Know that we'll still have each other

You can stand under my umbrella

Rihana - Umbrella

a quote...

You fall in love with personality but you live with character.

u can...

You can either hold yourself up to the unrealistic standards of others,

or ignore them and

concentrate on being happy with yourself as you are

~Jeph Jacques

Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard...

Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means moving on. It is one of the hardest things a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so.You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. To be able to move on, one has to learn to forgive not only the person (or people) who have done one wrong but also oneself. Any change, any loss, does not make us victims. Others can shake you, surprise you, disappoint you, but they can't prevent you from acting, from taking the situation you're presented with and moving on. No matter where you are in life, no matter what your situation, you can always do something. You always have a choice and the choice can be power. Like Pat Riley said "courage is not the absence of fear, but simply moving on with dignity despite that fear"

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Be just, and fear not.

Let all the ends thou aim'st at be thy country's,

Thy God's and truth's.

~William Shakespeare~

24.02.1951

Every year,

on your birthday,

I think about how glad I am

that i was born,

how thankful I am

to have had you in my life.

Every year is another year

I miss you ...pa

& I love you very much....

Happy Birthday Pa!

Wise words of Wiesel

Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing. Peace is our gift to each other. Words can sometimes, in moments of grace, attain the quality of deeds.

~Elizer Wiesel~

when trust is broken

What ever the relationship... friendship, family, love...it need TRUST. Trust is the foundation of all relationships. Without that security, there is no faith. Without faith, there is no integrity.A bond of trust is something that develops over time. It is a remarkable part of a relationship based on respecting the strengths and weaknesses of others. However, trust is often lost and when that happens the struggle to regain it begins. Broken trust can hurt. When you tend to trust someone who's your friend and they betray you...what do you do ...Hurt & anguished.. When the betrayal is accompanied with bunch of lies...it makes things worst. Trust is assurance in another that allows one to assume discretion and confidentiality in relationships.William James, the great American philosopher and psychologist once wrote that we have the right to believe and trust, to know with certainty that a person or thing will not fail. When it fails..and trust is broken...we are faced with the ultimate question of whether we will trust the person again...only God knows..